Last weekend was sister's weekend in Chicago. Ever since my Mom passed away in 2002, my sister and I have tried to spend a weekend together in Chicago to enjoy one another's company, go to a Cub's game, visit friends and visit Mom's grave. This year was a little different. We didn't even plan the weekend around a Cub's game because we had a different goal in mind this year. Last December one my sister's best friends, Damien, decided he could not stay on this earth any longer. His decision was devistating for my sister and many others. My sister and his friends have tried to reach up out of their pit of despair and contribute to the world by raising money to benefit the San Francisco SPCA, one of Damien's favorite charities. My sister organized a few fund raisers in San Francisco while another friend, Cathy, prepared to run the Chicago Marathon in Damien's memory. The marathon and an afterparty with a raffle would be the culminating e...